Wednesday, August 24, 2011

When do you have sex?

Ok, I'm SURE there are tons of people dealing with this, so I'm hoping some of you will have good suggestions!

Couples w/kids.....when do you have sex?  Our kids are older, but seems like there is ALWAYS at least one around.  Our only 100% kid free time is every other weekend.  We definitely make use of those weekends, however, {while I can't speak for hubby} I want sex A LOT more than every other weekend!  Our kids are not "little", so we can't put them in a crib, or pop a DVD in & have them sit to watch it while we go upstairs and get busy.  They're in and out of the house constantly, so there is no set time where we can go grab a quickie at least.  The only time they're gone and not going to interrupt is during school, however, hubby gets home AFTER the kids, so even back to school isn't helping the cause!    
We have tried, in the past, to take advantage as soon as they leave the house, but 99% of the time, they'll forget something and come right back, which getting startled/scared that your kids are gonna see/hear what they shouldn't is a total turn-off.

See our dilemma?  PLEASE offer your suggestions/strategies to dealing with this! 

2 comments:

  1. With my child being three and a half I don't even get the in and out of the house breaks.
    Took it for granted , how easy things had been when it came to fun time before having a kid.
    Now we must (and it is rare) sneak it in when life allows. Besides that -
    Sex = Late at night when we are both tired. It is our only option. lol

    I feel for you and your dilemma.

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  2. LOL! You're the 1st to comment on HERE, but def not the 1st to comment! A LOT of us are in the same boat, apparently. If we can come up w/a good solution, we'll be RICH! ;)

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